Just noticed your post. I'm not giving in. As part of the D agreement her parents are buying me out of my equity in the house. It's a fair deal, but means I have to move. I told her I'd only take it if I had plenty of time to find a place, but I started looking and realized that I'd rather just be out of the house and in my own place where I can relax. So it's a good thing. And i found a great place.
