Patience is key

[addie]

Kalni,
I read the email over many times but was still unclear.

I replied basically what I wrote above but kept it vague. I think he was trying to ask me if I would support him emotionally(as a wife, even if we were to remain physically apart due to work). Anyhow, he did come by here tonight and said he appreciated what I wrote.

I really sense that H is coming out of his fog about OW. He's making more of an effort to contact me during the day (a couple of times a day), tells me about his day, asks about my day and has also come by just about every day for the past 2 weeks.

As far as other aspects of H's life, I realize he continues to be very unhappy and confused about what he wants. He is always searching for something else that will make him happy, but never seems to find it.