Hi nlt,
I am sooooo sorry that your D is now final. It is very natural to be sad and to have feelings of anger. It all happened so fast. Take the next few days to let out your emotions over it. But also make sure you pamper yourself during this time. Do something really nice for yourself, you deserve it now more than ever.
Remember, D does not have to be the end. There is always a chance that H will realize that he made some terrible mistakes. However, right now you do have to move forward with your life without H because there are no guarantees that he will ever come to that realization.
nlt, there is a forum on this site for those who are divorced. You may get better advice/support on that forum but of course you can continue to post here if you feel more comfortable.

I am so glad your job interview went well. I'm keeping my fingers crossed that you get the job.

I'm thinking of you. ((((((Hugs)))))


Me47
H46
S13
M16
Piecing since May/09

"Life is 10% what happens to us and 90% how we react to it." Lou Holtz