Thanks, Karen, Lwb,

My only real option at this time, given I don't have anything already lined up, is to accept the demotion and keep looking. Like they say, it's easier to get a job if you already have one.

The part that worries me is that they even offered me the alternative of resigning. Makes it sound like they don't care if I stay or go. On the other hand they have been known to fire people outright when their jobs became expendable, but they offered to keep me on even in a demoted role (this is not precedented with them, as far as I recall). If I stay, they would have to know that I would leave at the first opportunity. I just don't know -- I'm really confused.



Me: 49
WAW: 47
S11, S7
Years Married/Together: 17/18
Bomb: 6/15/07
Separation: 7/6/07
D: 4/3/09

Real love is a decision.
Marriage is a commitment.