Going on Four Weeks MLCer Home

[brueniap]

Been following your story for quite a while tho I don't post...but tonite I want to tell you I appreciate that you've told how difficult it is or can be when they come home.

My H has been home 11 months now. The first 6 were ridiculous. It is getting better now.........but to be perfectly honest? It was much better when he wasn't here.

But then again........there are many lessons to be learned here that are being taught to us at the same time. IT's a tough call and I don't envy your situation at all - especially with the drinking going on as much as it is.

the truth is very important. And tho I don't want to burst anyone's bubble............everyone needs to remember that the person who is coming back is very much still the same person as the one that left you.

My h would never even consider counseling or any kind of help. For what? He has always justified what he did.

so you have to go on from there and figure out how you're going to make it work this time.

you will be in my prayers. You've got your work cut out for you. but that doesn't mean it can't be done....it will take time tho, SF, a great deal of time.

Life for me is much better now that it was before. There are good things. Mostly I have to learn how to keep quiet in this world of his and watch God do His wonders with this situation. Amazing things can happen

God bless you,

brue