Hi everyone, Thank you all for the advice. I will try to stay upbeat & just show him. Plus my friend is supposed to be here with a good bottle of wine!!
Yes, today was the day I went to court, the divorce is final. I'm very sad, my lawyer could tell. We walked out with H paralegal, my lawyer told her how bad my H had been & he had quit his job & moved to TX with OW, he even said "she is ugly too" the paralegal was so nice & said "how could he leave you as pretty as you are?" That made me feel really good, even tho I'm still heart broken. But, hopefully one day he will come out of his fog & realize what he has done. Especially when he discovers that all this is with OW is infatuation (which I know will never last).
As for the job interview, it went really well. I met with both the main guys & it was a very laid back interview & we talked like we had known each other for a long time. We did know a lot of the same people in this industry, so that was good. They seemed to like me but of course they want to talk it over between the 2 of them, which I totally understand. So, they said they would get back to me. It's a very casual place to work, they were both in blue jeans. HA I hope I get the job, it will be good for me to keep my mind off H for now & hope that one day he will come back.
Thank you all for your support & even though I'm divorced now, I hope I can still post on this site & keep in touch with you all. I know I'm still going to have lots of down days.
