Sorry to hear of this step backwards, I really thought you were close. I'm at the same point, getting to the point of moving on.Although our circumstances are somewhat different, my W is pushing for a D, I'm giving up on her and starting to move on. I did talk to her today on the phone, returning her call. I've told the kids (all adults) I've given up, if Mom wants to try again she can call me.
I think that by just "moving on", I can get my life in order and if she wants back into it she can pursue me, I'm done. I've dropped the rope, didn't tell her or try to convince her. I will see her at best friends sons wedding, but will not chase after her as she expects.
Mike
M 51 W 49 S26 S25 D24 D19 Married 27 yrs T over 30 S 7/12 D-bomb 9/26
