She called me honey she slipped...she has called me that in 4 months since we separated....Anyway I picked up the kids after school today and my oldest and I had a little cry together and my oldest told me that the W told them during the talk that she still loved their Dad.......What's with that!! Anyway I don't put much stock in it.
Even though it's hard to know what she really means by that slip of tongue, it sounds like it wasn't really a slip-up after all, from what she told your daughter. Maybe you should take it as a baby step from her, a gem and be happy about it. Keep up the 180s and the other DBing strategies. If it took this long for the M to break down, it might take a while for things to improve too.
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It is more important for me to be a father than to worry about her using me.
It's really loving and compassionate of you to be more concerned about being a father to the kids.