He will get the message and I 100% believe it will have more of an impact if you show him with your actions that you are not going to play his games...
You're right. I guess the only way he'll know that I'm not playing his games anymore is to not play. As BFM suggested, I really do have to live my life as though he's not coming back.
I went through my old digital pictures today, organizing them so I could pass along some of my D to family and the exercise really put into perspective how the past two years of my life have been spent concentrating on trying to get my H to come back to me. What a waste of energy. Had I let go in the beginning, imagine what I could have done with all of that energy?
Letting go is hard, true, but I've been trying to hold on to something that can't be held, and getting beat up in the process.
Thank you for reading and responding.
FA
What does not destroy me, makes me stronger.
FA:43, H:42 D:7 M:10 yrs, T:24 yrs EA:?, PA:1/06 S:3/07 EA/PA ongoing Aborted attempt to move home 07/08
