I'm going to make sure your court date is entered in our special intentions at school tomorrow. I'll be praying for you and for the system to help get it right.
As for my sitch, I am glad W is going back to counseling, but I'm pretty sure she's looking for more justification instead of for some real work. However, if she sticks with counseling long enough, she may have a shot at an eventual break-through. Thus, her going gives me some hope, but I'm not sure where I'll be when/if she does "break-through."
On the advice, I really do appreciate it and I will do as you are suggesting and try to pay it forward in the future. Thanks.