Hi all,
Thanks for your posts. They got me through a tough week. Thanks for the condolences. It has been one heck of a few weeks.

Always,
Thanks. I have to stop myself from looking at and over analyzing everything that he does as baby steps or the big one. It almost does not even matter at this point. I am so over this mess now that I am willing to use this as a business transactiona and just get on with it.

Cat,
I GOT THE BOOK !! It is great and will stop by your thread to update you as I get through it...Thanks for the recommendation, i really needed it.

Almosthopeful,
One day at a time... that is all that i can do right now but I will make it as will all of us on this board.

MrsH,
I have been reading and you are doing just fine. No worries babe, you do what you have to do...Email me and maybe we can meet up and chat a bit.HUGS TO YOU !

Lissie,
Smooches and you are right... I have been here before and yet again, I let myself get caught up just when I thought that my boundaries were iron clad. Just Friday night I saw him when he came for the kids and he made a sexually related comment. I was shocked, like someone though hot mucous on me. I was like a deer in headlights... who know what motivates them. i just know that I gotta get out of this...

HUGS AND KISSES to all of you... keep strong and keep posting.

*Ever*