Update today, My wife has called me at work this morning telling me once again that she is done, can't do this anymore. Can't do any more MC. Says she is smothered, does not want me around. Says the things I am doing around the house now, like, laundry, cooking meals for her, doing dishes and the like only aggrevate her. She had complained that I was not doing any of this before and that pissed her off, I start doing it and it pisses her off. I am at work now so it's hard to read and post on this site. Any responses would be greatly appreciated. You can go back and read my sitch, it's pretty complicated and we have been through a lot.
Well, I posted this this morning from work but little did I know that my W had left me a message on my cell, which was in the car, that basically let me know that she was having th D papers served on me today. She said nothing of this in our conversation over the phone. I am sitting here anticipating the D papers arrival any moment. I have tried to be at peace but am struggling emotionally. It's very hard to hold it together and being a 44 year old man, I know it's not very attractive when I cry. I guess the question is Now What?? When the papers get to me I have 30 days to answer. She mentioned she wants to keep attending MC in order for us to work out our differences for our daughters sake??? I went to MC to save the marriage and to be honest, I don't know if I want to be best friends with her if our marriage is over..I mean, I want to be nice around her with our D, but that's all. I sure don't want to have to deal with her mother if I'm not married to my W. Any Suggestions, comments at all. I'm sort of lost.
Another question I have is my W has Relay for Life event this Friday. I was going to go to support her because she said that's one thing I never did was to support her during her work events. My D2 will be there so it would be a good opportunity to play with her..Question is Do I go to the Relay for Life event?? The D papers are probably going to be served just any time now. Do I act "as if" or what do I do?? Today has screwed me up bad. I am a wreck.
