lodo, I understand if a good place comes up to rent that you can get you almost have to take it. Housing isn't easy. BUT, sometimes it reads like you are giving in to her too easy and just letting her have whatever she wants. I'm not there to know how it feels in person so DON'T get cranked okay? And no, I don't know what you should do different. Maybe get a fancy bike like mine. ;\)

Live your life while you are still living.
Riding the trail less traveled.