you can't cut ALL contact but you have control over the damaging contact. I'm trying a 90% cut and I'm starting to feel better....slowly. Its a load off of me! Can you believe all the contact on Monday from her! Really makes me wonder. My ex is in a long term(9 months?) relationship and I guess he's nothing like me. He's her dad, just screwed up and damaged! They have something in common:)
For her this is at least number 3. And I do miss her but cutting the ties for a time is the only way I'll heal.

Cutting ties is different for everyone. Sometimes it helps and sometimes. It really depends on you.

Its one day at a time.


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Me 35
w 42
4 sk 12-21
our s10
m10
t14
'02 ILUBNILWY
12/24/05 pa
02/07 pa
separated 1/07-3/07
asked 4 D 3/07