you can't cut ALL contact but you have control over the damaging contact. I'm trying a 90% cut and I'm starting to feel better....slowly. Its a load off of me! Can you believe all the contact on Monday from her! Really makes me wonder. My ex is in a long term(9 months?) relationship and I guess he's nothing like me. He's her dad, just screwed up and damaged! They have something in common:) For her this is at least number 3. And I do miss her but cutting the ties for a time is the only way I'll heal.
Cutting ties is different for everyone. Sometimes it helps and sometimes. It really depends on you.
Its one day at a time.
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...rue#Post1230087 Me 35 w 42 4 sk 12-21 our s10 m10 t14 '02 ILUBNILWY 12/24/05 pa 02/07 pa separated 1/07-3/07 asked 4 D 3/07