I couldn't agree more with you CL.

I am hesistant to use the term "piecing" because the goal is not to re-build our previous relationship. Our goal is to build the kind of relationship that we both want and never had...EVER.

H and I married young, had kids young and didn't develop the tools necessary to cultivate a deep and loving relationship. We went about marriage on auto-pilot thinking that is what we are supposed to do.

We are in "construction" not "piecing"!


"No one can make you feel inferior without your consent." -Eleanor Roosevelt.
M-42, H-42. M-22yrs, together 27yrs, Sep 5yrs.
D-22, S-18
I'm a survivor