Grace,

Just a suggestion from your pal:

Don't overthink this. Just be. Do. Live.

You're doing the right thing, so to a certain extent who cares what the motivation is?

One time when I was getting wordy, you told me not to worry about it, you're a woman, you love stuff like that. So I'm gonna tell you something back.

You're over-analyzing this like a man!!!!

You're doing great and you have my full support.

Everybody hurts. It's part of life. Don't miss the good stuff.