ouch FIB, your points are so true, I see my life of the past 8mths in those posts about toxic love and lines crossed.
There is also another word for that: enabling
When you try to "save" that person so much that you don't let them face up their mistakes or sweep them under the rug and hold your breath hoping for a miracle from a person who is unable to grow a spine and do things right even if they hurt.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.