Sorry I haven't been about Eve - I did see H's original email but been having piggie problems and PC problems ... didn't get the chance to reply.
I would have said ignore this email, you asked for space and he's not agreeing to that. Your reply to him though was spot on.
So - his second email ... well yes he's probably struggling finanacially but he put himself there! I'm sorry, he is asking for sympathy from you again like he did at new year. If I was in front of him now I would say "JUST GROW UP!!".
Going to get a bit heated ... so f'ing what about his financial problems. Tough sh1t. You asked nicely for space and if he needs money well it's not up to you to provide that for him. you have been above board in all dealings so he can frankly take his begging emails and shove them where the sun don't shine.
I agree with 25 year - get thee to the lawyer. Although I feel anger at your H you showing him a lot of anger will not help. Firm but fair is the line.
Bomb (ILYBINILWY, don't want to be married)Sept05 Seperated Sept/Oct 05 Oct 06 - H recomitted July 11 - I am now a WAW.