That is right where I am now. I need to let her go. Like the Sting song, "Free, free, let her go free." When I do I know she will not be back but I really think that is ok now. All I want for her is for her to be happy. She will be happier without me and i know she misses and feels for the OM, she has told me so. You are right, one person can not DB, I am getting nothing back so i will set her free. I really don't know if she knows what she is giving up. So many men are so screwed up out there right now. I am no box of perfect chocolates but I don't drink, smoke, gamble, womenize and I am a great loving father. This guy just wants to get in her shorts and then he will be gone. So will I. She makes me so sick with her confidence and cockiness, she is going to crash and burn and the kids and I are going to left to pick up the pieces. You know I will be there too, maybe not as a husband but as a friend.
