thanks bill, I guess I'm confused on what to never give up. I am the type of person that does not ever give up. That is my problem here though. I feel I can't give up on the marriage but at the same time its become so unsupportable alone (with absolutely 0 contact/effort on her part) that I don't know how it could ever be fixed. That is unless she suddenly decided to put some immense efforts into fixing the problem.
I guess my frustration is how can I be good to her if I can't legally talk to her? She has put up these immense 'legal' walls. I don't want to hurt my life more than it has been. Yet I also don't want to just give up either.
