I'm just checking this board out for the first time--I am on the MLC board most of the time. My H still lives at home, but seems hell-bent on S and then D. I noticed that some of you talk about giving back H's last name if you took it. I never changed my name, but I wonder all the time about what I'd do with my wedding and engagement rings and all the jewelry H has given me, not to mention the alomst 20 years of photos of us and our family.

Just curious about that aspect of it. Sorry to interrupt!


Me/X-H: 47/48
T 19 yrs
M 16 years
D14
D10
ILYBINILWY: 10/07
H moved out 6/08