Originally Posted By: neecy22
I do think he wants me to feel bad and ask him. I will not.


WONDERFUL.

Let H feel bad for himself. Your main concern right now should be you and D. Figure out what you have to do to work past this.

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He contacted me at work today to
1. ask me what I wanted him to make me for supper and he will leave when I get there and
2. ask if I could make up a new resume for him.


1. He is again trying to get you to feel bad for him. "I'm going to do something nice for her, then tell her that I'm leaving....boo hoo....I'm the victim here." Puh-lease.

But do accept the dinner, if you'd like. \:\/

2. Do the new resume for him. Only because it is something that has the potential to help better his situation. HOWEVER, limit the favors you choose to do for him. Don't always be the one he looks to fall back on.

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When I asked what the resmue was for he said for when he leaves town. (I am sure this is a ploy) I said oh I thought maybe you were actually making an attempt to start working on our family but you are just trying to get farther away


Try your hardest to refrain from making such comments. I understand your frustration, I really do, but they do not help anyone. Least of all yourself.

Hang in there, lady. \:\)

Last edited by GoingForward; 04/08/08 06:36 PM.
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