I really don't get why H should be mad just because my lawyer is looking out for me. H is the one who started the D ball rolling and now there is no stopping it. What the hell did he think would happen? Does this idiotic WAS think that I should not have any rights of my own?
I will now go for the maximum that I possibly can get. H should be ashamed of himself.
Yes, they do think that they can walk away without being responsible for the spouse they left behind anymore. How greedy and selfish of you to expect anything from him. Mine sat in mediation, trying to impress the mediators, saying he would do whatever he could to help me financially, that if he could he would buy me a house, but when it came down to it, he tried to screw me on everything. He said no matter how many days he had the kids per year, he would pay the maximum child support, then made sure not to. You need to listen to your lawyer and take care of yourself...he will not take care of you.
"You can't stop the waves, but you can learn to surf." Jon Kabat-Zinn