When you put it like that FIB, My relationship is kinda TOXIC. But then I knew that. I think that is part of what holds me on .. wanting and trying to make it better!!
I have been apart from my H for about 8 - 9 monthes now.In that time, I have learned so much and grown hugely! But you are quite right, there does come a time when you realise that no matter how much you do you will never be able to fix things, especially if the other person doesn't want to.
How did you know when that time was?
was there something particular that happened .. or did you just wake up one morning and think enough is enough?
I am going to do some reading on codependancy.
Thankyou so much for that!
NC
Be The Greener Grass.
Me 40 H 42 Son 11 Married 15 years. Left May 2006 after gambling spree I had EA August 2006 OW Aug 07 after another gambling spree (she will make me happy - stop me gambling!) I filed for divorce 9th April 2008.
When you put it like that FIB, My relationship is kinda TOXIC. But then I knew that. I think that is part of what holds me on .. wanting and trying to make it better!!
