OK got another problem maybe you guys can give some input on... When I tell H no or don't welcome his affections with open arms he usually goes away and more or less pouts about it. I have told him on numerous occations that I am not rejecting him its the affection at that time that I am rejecting. Let me give you an example of what just happened. I had just gotten home from the long weekend with MIL and SIL, I was catching up on the paper. H came up to me and wanted a kiss, I had given him his hugs and kisses when I got home, so I was a bit irritated that he could not see that I was in the middle of something and was pissed about the fact that I was not more than happy to give him more kisses. He walked away in a huff, made a comment and pouted in the chair. This is not a new thing, it has been an on going thing but its because more of an issue now than ever. I will admit that I have done the same thing but it seems that he takes it more to heart than I did or do. I know that we are wired differently and I am trying as much as I know how to make myself avalible to him for that right now, I know that he needs alot of reasurring around how I feel about him. any input would be appriciated.
