She said `do you want to sleep in here? I know you want to, come on then` So I did. So that was great, first time I was invited back!!
I think that is a good sign......but she is vulnerable when she is sick so it could go either way. By that I mean next time, she might not want you around her.....remember what I said about scents? My mother said it made her sick to smell my daddy when she was pregnant (lol) and he was not a dirty person...it was just that she was that sensitive to smells....and that sick!
Back to the kissing.....yes, I do think you are pushing by saying, "give us a kiss baby".....even if you are doing it in a fun way, it is still putting pressure on her. She is not stupid Steve....she knows! I don't know that I would kiss her on the cheek unless she seems pretty much in the mood and you think the timing is right. DO NOT ASK FOR A GOOD NIGHT KISS! That is showing that you are needy (which you are, but still it is a turn-off to her).
I am so impressed about your weight loss. Wish I could brag like that...lol. But, personally, I think you have probably lost enough weight. Just tone and keep in shape. You don't want to be skinny!
Her letting you feel the baby kick is a very good sign!! Because that is a very private and special moment that the mother doesn't want to share with anyone, the first time the baby kicks, except the daddy.....usually (there may be some exceptions out there, but that's my personal viewpoint).
Got to get back to work. Just came in for lunch. Sweetie, you are doing great. Just remember to not set yourself up for disappointment and don't pressure. Flirting is ok, just be careful and don't over kill.
Later, Sandi
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
