Everywhere I go, my situation is in my face. The three of us (H, me, OW) work within 15 feet of one another (our offices are laid out in a triangle, nonetheless). I hear the two of them interacting so friendly and flirtatiously and it is becoming unbearable. I hear his phone ring at home and I know it's her. I hear his phone beep when I new text message arrives and I know it's her. I can't escape this situation for even a millisecond in each day and it's driving me out of my mind.
Girl, I don't know how you do it; you must be the strongest woman ever!!! I know you can't escape all of that but have you thought about looking into a different job so you can get a break & breathing space at least during the day??? Karen
Karen