H4U, I agree TOTALLY with Puppy and the others. If you don't see the evidence of the no-contact (ie: email, im, text, etc...) don't believe it. My H swore he sent his OW a text message saying it was over and I believed it until all hell broke loose. Believe what you can see, not what you hear. Actions speak louder than words.

You are doing a great job and I think you are being more than fair, but just protect yourself. If you don't feel it then go with your gut.

Stay strong and keep focused.

M:39
H:39
K:S14;D8
T:22yr
M:15yrs
S:12/28/07 EA/PA
3/14/08 OW preg
11/17/08 born
12/12/08 his
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Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option