Went out for a really nice dinner with friends last night. I was "paired up" with another single lady, we both joked all night how we were on a date, but it wasn't like that.
I was sitting back and observing my thoughts in this situation - quite interesting.
It showed me that I am definitely not ready to date anyone...although I was very attracted to the lady, I kept thinking of W and how I feel in my bones that we are not "done" yet.
Detachment is good though, I don't find myself thinking of her all the time, which is far more healthy. For example, this morning when I woke up, I thought of 2 or 3 other things before she even crossed my mind. Big change.