Non sexual interactions really vary. Life is tough right now for us with high bills, low income, constant calls from creditors. She qualifies for many of the reasons, not excuses, for a LD wife. I have gotten discouraged with all of our interaction as nothing I do seems to make a lasting difference. I have worked hard on non sexual touching and trying to communicate. Unfortunately, the things she wants to talk about, such as the new job I can't find, just make me feel depressed. I do find myself angry with her over our sex life. I have to remind myself constantly to not let that color the rest of our life together. Our children are 12, 9, and 7. Having children changed things some, but not too much. We would have divorced had she not turned up pregnant with the first one.
We started fighting right away about sex as that was something I really wanted to enjoy on our honeymoon and it was just something to get out of the way for her so we could do other stuff. We only had sex three of the seven days.
I had never had intercourse at the point we married. I had done a lot of other stuff but never that.
