stop apologizing...pity parties happen...next time we will bring beverages!!
When H and I were S, I worried about finances all the time. H had lost his job of 10 years, and then lost one after 3 weeks...can you say MLC???
I thought it may have been a tactic to lessen child support (I don't think that now..) because H was going to have to pay about 400 to me a week and he already pays 200 for his sons a week.
My L asked that child support be based on the last 3 years W2 forms, basically an average of his salary. When we had our meeting with h and his L, his L was going to refute our request but my L said a judge would approve it.
You are a stay at home mom and your "job" doesn't come with pay, but yet helped the family because your H could work and you did not have daycare expenses.
I am a teacher so I do pretty well on my own, even with that H still would have been made to pay child support and half of daycare. I would not be entitled to spousal support.
Don't let the finances worry you, I know you are in the middle of it all but rest assure that in the long run you will be okay financially, it may help to look at your budget and see where you can save some money. It will make you feel empowered because you can control that.
Focus on things you have control over, it will make you feel stronger.
