WAS mindset: I am done, he or she can do nothing to change my mind, I am justified in leaving, he or she will never change. I will be happier by myself or with someone else.
Now what you have done is cause doubt, you have caused her to question her decision that she has worked so hard on for years and come to a conclusion on. If she wants out I would say if you want to move you are free to do so. I respect your wishs, but since you don't want to end the relationship I don't see a reason for you to leave. Keep up the other stuff if she leaves keep the house immaculate and do what your doing you are definitely getting a reaction out of her.
Now it is up to her to sort it out. I believe your improvements have caused her to question her decision, so now she does not want to think she made the wrong one so she will run away so she doesn't she what she will be missing. I hope this helps. good luck
Married:10 years D final 8/28/08 10 minutes is all it took Life goes on and DB was no small part in growing from the Divorce!
