I think my in-laws like me better then they do my W. They know she is not stable but thier opion we are both wonderful people but we are not good together and we both "desreve to be happy". Well I would be happy if my W would put some effort into our marrage and consider R but she is dead set on "getting things moving". I just want her to be happy nomatter what. I don't worry about me, just her and the kids.
i am trying to keep busy and stay out of her way. The arguing is really starting to get to me and i am avoiding it in anyway possible. I also think she is spending a lot more time with OM but I can not speculate or worry.