I had expectations of some kind of emotional intimacy, which stbx was incapable of.
I just realized how long I was waiting for that for the 1.5yr I was "piecing" with 4nowH, and I remember reading somewhere how in a M you need 3 things : commitment, love and passion. When we were together he had commitment for about 5mins, a dash of some sort of love but no passion, let alone emotional intimacy. I held on hoping for crumbs for so long, from a person, as you rightly put it INCAPABLE of giving.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
