Re. picking up the kids and us still being M:

We've been S for more than 2.5 years, and she's been in the kids' lives for over a year now, so in that respect, it doesn't really matter to me. Yes, I wish he had respected his vows, but he didn't, and there's no point in my holding him to the same standard I have held myself. That said, if Mr. Hottie asked me out, I would go...and we are still M. Though hopefully not past the end of the month, if all goes well.


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