Glad to hear everything went ok with H's surgery. You know, I have heard that the truth always comes out when patients are either under anesthesia or heavily medicated. So I think you H was telling the truth to you. And you stone cold sober told the truth. I think it was a positive step for both of you. For that my friend, i cry tears of happiness for you.
I'm sure its going to be fun playing the communication game with H for the next few weeks, by the end you two will have your own language, which will include the language of a new love you both of you.
(hugs) bear
Me 42-Him 40 T20yrs Married 16yrs 2/06 H- "not sure if i want to be married anymore" 6/07 H-"I'm not happy" 9/07 Admits affair & OW 12/08 I moved out 12/09 still waiting for divorce
OMG, (((W2G))), so much for my attempt to learn how to control my tears
What a beautiful (in spite of your poor H's jar broken and reset) day. I'm so sure it was the moment of truth for him and the truth is - he loves you! If there any setbacks to come, don't let them take that moment away from you.
Does you H look anything like Rocky?! Thanks to KerryK that's how I picture him now .
I ask not for a lighter burden, but for broader shoulders ____________________________________________________ M 46 H 45 D 17 M/T 23 Bomb #1 (ILYBNILWY) 12.06 Bomb #2 (OW) 12.07 Bomb #3 (chose OW over M) 9.08
*hugs*.. I love reading about your moments, the elegance and calm in which you handle your time with your spouse, how receptive you are to him.. and how this is creating a delicate bud that continues to emerge like the flowers of spring.
I had a Starbucks today and I thought "yummi" and then W2G just came to mind. Weird!! We may meet you know, when you come to visit again with your H, that will be fun...
You are doing a good job. Keep it up. Enjoy it, I am happy for you. I like the way you "carry" yourself these days...
I am very happy for you. I'm quite sure he meant everything he said. I highly doubt he would have had the where with all to make it up while he was all doped up.
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