Hi Grace- I am not sure I can add anything to what everyone else has said...partly because I am not really sure I am following what you are asking.
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I believe I've gone NC for myself, but something is nagging at me and I cannot put my finger on it.
First thing that comes to mind would be that you are angry and you don't want to be...but what do I know?
I'm assume you are talking about being embarrassed and ashamed of things you did during your M...if that is the case, we all should be embarrassed and ashamed...I don't need to tell you that no one is perfect...and our WAS spouses should be 1000 times more times more embarrassed and ashamed.
Grace, these last several weeks have had to be hard on you. Please don't beat yourself up...you don't deserve it. You are a wonderful, strong, caring insightful person that has so much to offer to so many. Please don't doubt yourself.
