I think when they are in MLC they just don't see anything around them. They don't see the hurt and the wide path of destruction that they are leaving in their "quest for happiness". All of those things he said he wanted you to change were just excuses for him to feel better about walking away. He probably is ticked off that you actually took all of his excuses to heart and improved yourself.
I have been in this sich for nearly 2 years. You know I don't have it figured out and I hope because you found this site so much earlier than I that you are at a better place than I was. It has only been since Easter that I haven't felt consumed with everything. I've only been doing DB for a month. So chin up and make a great day. kat
Kat, Thanks for the hugs!!! I think you are right about MLC, I think they don't see it, don't want to see us or things clearly, b/c I think the guilt would eat them up too much!!!
I'm so glad that you are DBing and on the boards here after having gone 2 years without DBing! I feel so much stronger and happier now that I am DBing, GALing, posting here, and all the other positive stuff I am doing. I feel stronger all the time, which is so good b/c I was feeling so weak before I discovered DB and everyone here!!! Karen
I think you are right about MLC, I think they don't see it, don't want to see us or things clearly, b/c I think the guilt would eat them up too much!!!
