Heather, I don't understand how you can make love to your husband of how ever many years you two have been married and "feel nothing." This is what I am trying to understand from my H. After all we have been through together, after everything that's happened in our R over the years, how on earth can he "feel nothing" towards me? But then I have only had sex with one man (obviously my H) and that was what I dreamed of for the rest of my life. So maybe I am coming at this from a different angle. Please cue me in how it is humanly possible to not feel anything after making love to someone you have such a deep history with.

Sara

Me-31 H-38
M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs
No kids
Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06
Found out about OW 12-24-07
Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08
OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08
OW is back 4-19-08
H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08
Filed for divorce 6-5-08
Divorced 7-2-08