Glad to hear everything went ok with H's surgery. You know, I have heard that the truth always comes out when patients are either under anesthesia or heavily medicated. So I think you H was telling the truth to you. And you stone cold sober told the truth. I think it was a positive step for both of you. For that my friend, i cry tears of happiness for you.
I'm sure its going to be fun playing the communication game with H for the next few weeks, by the end you two will have your own language, which will include the language of a new love you both of you.
(hugs) bear
Me 42-Him 40 T20yrs Married 16yrs 2/06 H- "not sure if i want to be married anymore" 6/07 H-"I'm not happy" 9/07 Admits affair & OW 12/08 I moved out 12/09 still waiting for divorce