Thanks for the comment to me, Kerry. But I still don't know if H wants to come back. We have both been on the rollercoaster (me and you, not me and H) long enough to know that downs often follow ups. So I am "flat" about the whole thing. I can't let myself get "up" b/c of his recent actions or I will fall even farther when they change or stop....
It is good to know that your W says she misses you a lot. But I have to ask, I am curious, does W discuss this stuff with your kids? Trying to figure out how a 5 year old starts talking about mommy being "torn between you and OM". Guess I know from experience they overhear things even when we think they don't.
Anyway just wanted to say it is good if she is missing you. IF they feel "bad" about how things are going, that could be chalked up to guilt. But if they honestly say they "miss" you, that is more about the love, I think...
