I wish I could explain how to detach. I still struggle with it. At some point I just got fed up with being used and lied to. And it happened slowly. Just try to make every day a little better than the day before. Concentrate on being good to her and others and every night run thru every positive in your life you can think of. That will begin to shift your thinking from negative to positive....,. over time.

Keep at it and never give up.
Bill

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Me 35
w 42
4 sk 12-21
our s10
m10
t14
'02 ILUBNILWY
12/24/05 pa
02/07 pa
separated 1/07-3/07
asked 4 D 3/07