Neecy,

That is clearly alcoholic behavior. I used to get that kind of out of control bullying from my son. But once he was arrested and put into a rehab program and put on the anti-alcohol drug antabuse, everything changed. You should have told the police to take him. You missed a great opportunity to let him face the consequences of his actions. He will never change as long as you protect him. Promise yourself that you will NEVER AGAIN rescue him. He is like a two year old throwing fits. You can't control him, but the police, a court system and a judge can. And it is worth more than the $10,000-15,000. In the end it will save his life, and perhaps yours too.