So your H is back to flip flopping. Did you text him back? with what message?
Hey, I think the singles scene will accept any age group nowadays, ha ha. A relative (widowed) in her 60's is still out dancing whenever she has time and she is still being pursued by many men. She has no desire to remarry, but she is casually dating. She has more social life than many much younger people. I look at her and wonder where she gets all the energy??
Guess OW is not "perfect" ha ha.