Trusting, I just winced when I read what he told your children. He shouldn't be discussing these things with your children. But you are right to keep dark. No offense, but I hope you don't ask the children for any information. Maybe you should tell them that it's best that you not hear such things.

Sounds to me that the gentleman doth protest too much--you have to be the villian, you see, so that he can justify the damage he caused. It will get harder to do so as you are absent. Now who should he blame??

I wonder if the OWs wind up getting the brunt of the MLC waking up. I mean, when life isn't perfect, now she is probably going to get blamed for luring him away from his fantastic wife and ruining his family life and causing all his problems.


M: 16 years
Bomb 4/07
OW 20s long gone
Divorced 11/09
I remarried New Guy
Cooperative r w/X regarding D