Thanks everyone for your advice regarding where I should post. I think I'll hold off from posting as I am spending too much time here and each time it's affects my PMA.
Rob, couldn't help laughing about your question regarding the Village People. No it's nothing like that and it's not feather boa's, tight lycra boxers & construction helments. It's like the stuff on Kleptomaniac
I was your typical right wing Christian homophobe and W works in the government where they seem to provide these folks with refuge and has always admired them for the way they look after themselves. They also seem to be her hairstylists no matter where she goes.
It was a huge 180 for me to even look into their lifestyle let alone being willing to understand them. W got all concerned that maybe I was going to turn that way. What I learnt from them was self confidence, how to groom/present/look-after yourself and detachment. After a whle, I was able to watch Queer as Folk on TV without getting sick. Helped my DBing like you wouldn't believe.
Suit
"It's better to have no spouse than have a bad spouse"
