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I also think that having the money deposited directly will be good for you


That's the thing 90% of it already was. It was just the extra bit that my L told him he had to pay that he was giving me by cheque. I still don't think he is paying anywhere near enough but that will get sorted in the legal process. I'm more than managing my money at the moment so I'm not going to rock this boat and upset the spew monster again!


Me 43
XH 45
M 2.7.88
Divorce 7.10.09
Kids D20,S17 & D15