geez!!! I believe you all...BUT...I am at a point in this that I see NO hope! No positives to hold on to.

He is spending more and more time with her. As long as that continues to happen and they get closer...what hope is there for me?

He is being more selfish...

He has gone completely dark with me...he doesn't call...he avoids me completely...

he says he is content with the way things are...

I guess I am asking any and all, what are my chances for R here? I really am starting to believe that it is now less than possible for us to ever get back together...so what the h*ll am I waiting for?

M41
H42
D17
Adopted N14
M22 T24
"Bomb" 4/07
Sep 8/07
Admitted OW 11/07(only to me)
OW back 12/4/07
PA on off thru 7/08
says done w/OW but not coming home 8/08
D final 7/09
Moving on and up!!