Quoting SuitedUp: I wanted to share my story with folks out there who have a low desire spouse. My W behaves like a moderate to high desire spouse and I attribute this most to the exterior changes that I've made. Muscles, new hairstyle, cologne, macho-gay fashion and new intimacy skills.
I wish my exterior changes would work on my H the way yours have worked on your W. I have lost 15 lbs and I would say I look better than I ever did since we got married. Maybe I need to work on the intimacy skills. I wouldn't dare initiate anything right now for fear of being rejected.
I agree with Yanni as to where you could try posting.
