In addition to what 25yrs said, I think that you should just go ahead and deal with any household maintenance issues that need doing and not involve in him in the planning or the doing. Just part of the "taking space" and detaching process.

Just an observation that it seems to me that a decision to stay in business together has as many emotional implications as financial. . . . I do wonder what his big yank is to take care of all of these financial and property matters.


me: 47
H: 48
he has 2 grown sons
M 1995(my 1st, his 3rd)
hit iceberg 6/07
S 9/26/07
before
now